Learn about the three stages of life and the secret of the cat phase in humans

Learn about the three stages of life and the secret of the cat phase in humans

The next and the entrants to the marriage may be unaware that when they
They decide to enter the happy marital world
They will go through three stages of marriage
They must know them before entering this field
In order to avoid further problems ...
Through her knowledge is knowledge of the husband's psychology
As well as the psychological wife ...

These stages divided by those interested in this area to three stages:

First stage: the stage of the bunny in the acquaintance between men and women


- When do you start and when do you finish?
- This stage begins when the man decides to marry ..

He starts looking for a partner of the age ..

And the question about when he finds it and its people and all that interests him ..

- As for the wife they start when also ask for this pair ..

And about his family and his situation ..

So everyone started to get to know each other.

When will it end?
- Ends when the husband enters his wife any night of marriage ..

- This stage what is increasing?

- And what mistakes occur in many of them?

- What are the foundations?

- What are the violations in which they occur?


- We are still in the first stage:


- This stage has a basis upon which the meaning when choosing the couple to each other

They must consider these principles in order to establish their lives, including:

1- Religion.


2- Creation.

3. Convergence in age and culture.


4- Istikhara and then counseling.


- Some may increase and may decrease ..

- This stage does not have a specific time but agreed to identify are the couple ..

They may agree to marry a month later.

Or after three months ..

Or a year ..

Or after graduation .. and so on

They have thus set this stage.

If they are in control ..


I would recommend a lot of brothers and sisters who attend the courses

No more than three months .. Maximum ..


The reason: that the length of the period, causing with time psychological problems on the case of the husband ..


And the case of the wife .. The longer this case increased ..


Because of the many thought of marriage .. and the night of Dakhla ..


The husband receives the words of many friends and the fallacies that get


And many tips for how to work on the night of Dakhla .. And so on


And also gets the girl what happens to the young man ..

Causing psychological pressure on the couple's situation ...


May affect them in the future ..


Therefore, I advise after the engagement that the duration of the marriage does not last longer than three months.


- The disadvantages of this stage and widespread and many that it gets a concession by the husband for some things

And the girl as well .. And girls more concession ..

The most important reasons for waiver: is to get out of the house and any home and get rid of it ..

There may be pressure from parents or disrespect.

The girl resorted to waiver in order to get rid of the parents and harassment.


Which hastens her to choose a husband who may not be what she wishes or not be competent ..


Which hastens divorce after discovering these things in it ..

She goes back to the house from which she fled

But this time with more painful aches ..

- The delay in choosing a wife or husband gives more dimension to marital life and stability ..


- We are still in the first stage:


- Violations in engagement and contract:


First: Not to enable the suitor from the legitimate vision


Secondly: The increase in dowries is unbearable


Third: the engagement ring


Fourth: the network


- Tackling the wife and loss of time and waste in sitting with her and excessive long hours


Or over the phone, which may result in loss of the Fajr prayer.


- I have advice for girls and unfortunately many of you do not know this advice


And a special hope that you do not know and deal with because it has a great Faida


I told you what Halkalam is only about experimenting with some girls ..


This experience is: I advise you not to talk to the husband until the night of marriage only things


Especially or things important once .. It may happen that the husband insists in the call


But do not go back to it except like what I said important things ..

- The reason: the man has a passion but few for women


It takes a lot of time to recompense or renovate it.

At the expense of consuming a lot of this emotion ..

And he has a strong enthusiasm, which makes them come out more ..

The wife here knows nothing about this ...

If she comes to the night of Dakhla or after a few days, the wife is surprised that her husband does not speak to her ...


What happened?


Have we caught a eye? Or what ?

- It's very simple not to talk to you so much that night


- I propose to each fiancée to answer these questions in a meeting between them


I have tried these questions and have had positive and successful results in marriage


1 - What is your future ambition and what is your goal in life?


What do you think of the concept of marriage?


3 - What qualities do you like to see in your partner?


4. Do you consider it necessary to have a child in the first year of marriage?

5 - Do you suffer from any health problems? Or congenital defects?


6 - Are you a social? And who are your friends?


7 - How is your relationship with your parents?


8 - What do you spend your free time? What are your hobbies?


9 - Do you have charitable or voluntary activity?


10 - What do you think if my mother or mother interfered in our personal lives?


- I'll leave you a little bit with these questions ..


If you answered them between yourselves and you would have been better ..


- I hope the answers are clear and clear ...



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